I support couples who may have started communicating through anger, silence or resentment.
We can often become isolated in relationships and feel misunderstood.
One of us may be emotional, able to discuss thoughts and feelings; the other may be more black and white, more pragmatic. With these differences blocks can start to appear. We stop communicating with each other, resentments build up, anger and bitterness. We stop talking.
When couples come to me for counselling, I can provide a space for each person to express how they really feel, and together we can negotiate why things are falling apart and how better to communicate with each other so that each person feels understood.
I can help to provide clarity and an opportunity to change or to improve a relationship.